Too much love for children, to meet all the children's requirements as much as possible, the children have become accustomed to being satisfied, as the children grow up day by day, the demands will be more and more, and more and more will be needed, and parents will gradually be unable to meet the children's requirements. The child will have a rebellious mentality and start to abandon the parents: Why are you born in such a family, why do you have such a pocketed parent.
The children who are loved are not grateful at all. Their demands will only be more and more. When they grow up, it is easy to bite their parents.
2. Too harsh for children
The opposite of love is harsh, parents are too harsh on children, especially when there are brothers and sisters, there is unequal treatment. When you grow up, your child will not think about the kindness of parents raising themselves. Remembering is always parents. Unfair and harsh.
The one that parents prefer, often does not filial to their parents. The result is that there are several sons, but the old man is wandering the streets.
This is the biggest irony.
3, the family environment is not harmonious, often hit the child
Parents often quarrel, rarely communicate well, speech is fierce, family environment is not harmonious, husband and wife quarrels often involve the child, but the pain is severe, and the heavy blows, the child from the trepidation to seeing all this, the temperament becomes indifferent. Children who grow up in this environment are also prone to filial piety when they grow up.
Everything in the world is causally and orderly, and what the child will eventually become is inseparable from the education of the parents. If you want your child to be a self-disciplined person, you must restrain your child's behavior from an early age and give the child a good example; if you want to make the child a good person, the parents themselves must be a kind person; the same, If you don't want to develop your child into a white-eyed wolf, it is best for parents not to have some of the above behaviors.
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